Chandan Kooner
“It all started when I got married and moved to UK . I remember my Journey to UK was filled with hopes for future and happiness . How naive was I ? Unwittingly I had made someone else responsible for my happiness, a person who was practically a stranger to me and had met only a few times . But I was told that this is how arranged marriages work . You just need to know few things and if it ticks the boxes he’s the one for you . Or that’s what I thought !
It’s not easy when you move to an unfamiliar territory with hundred percent dependency on someone whether financial or emotional . So as expected, it was definitely not a smooth ride . When you become reliant on someone, you unwillingly give them the power to take all decisions of your life whether big or small .So it was no different for me .Before I could think life could not get more difficult I was diagnosed with Cervical Spine tumour .Somewhere while going through four surgeries something unexpected happened , I FOUND MYSELF . I was sure that if I win this battle I don’t want to go back to my non-existent life . And I had to win this battle . I taught myself Self healing Technique , Meditation and Yoga to know my body and ways to heal it . And I healed, not only physically but mentally . My spiritual Journey to find myself helped me to make the first and biggest decision of my life . I didn’t want to carry the burden of relationship which was not serving me , my children or the other person . We parted ways . Was it easy ? No ! Was it necessary? Yes . Did it heal me ? Yes and it continues to heal me everyday .
I am financially not very secure ,I don’t live in a big house or drive a fancy car any more. But I have peace of mind , power to do whatever I wish to and will to explore the world . And most importantly there is only one person responsible for me and my happiness and that’s me !!! And if this is not empowering what else is ?”
Chandan Kooner coaches people on Self Healing Techniques through Yoga, Meditation and Energy clearing . Mother of two she enjoys going for long walks and cooking for a her children in spare time .